Marshall Goldsmith works with executives. To put it bluntly, managers with behavior problems. It could probably be argued that Marshall should have a lot of business. After all, we each probably exhibit some crappy little trait or another that riles our co-workers or demotivates subordinates and keeps us from rising professionally beyond a certain level. Mine? Well, to paraphrase an old poster I saw once, I used to be conceited. But no longer. Now I'm perfect. ;-)
I like the description to Marshall's approach. He trains people to behave effectively in the workplace through a brutal 360-degree feedback regimen. His regimen solicits feedback from his clients' co-workers and commits that he won't be paid unless the client gets better. And here's the deal, better apparently isn't defined by the client or even by Goldsmith. It's defined by the co-workers.
In soliciting the co-workers, he's looking for four things:
- Let go of the past.
- Tell the truth.
- Be supportive and helpful - not cynical or negative.
- Pick something to improve yourself - so everyone is focused more on "improving" than "judging."
I like that last item especially. By asking co-workers to help in changing the client's behavior, he's building a bond.
In offering a peek at the book, this summary points out 20 common challenges in interpersonal behavior:
1. Winning too much;
2. Adding too much value;
3. Passing judgment;
4. Making destructive comments;
5. Starting with "no," "but" or "however";
6. Telling the world how smart we are;
7. Speaking when angry;
8. Negativity ("let me explain why that won't work");
9. Withholding information;
10. Failing to give proper recgonition;
11. Claiming credit we don't deserve;
12. Making excuses;
13. Clinging to the past;
14. Playing favorites;
15. Refusal to express regret;
16. Not listening;
17. Failing to express gratitude;
18. Punishing the messenger;
19. Passing the buck;
20. An excessive need to be "me"





